“According to a number of top U.S. psychologists, like
Harvard professor and researcher Howard Gardner, Donald Trump is a “textbook” narcissist.
In fact, he fits the
profile so well that clinical psychologist George Simon told Vanity Fair, “He’s
so classic that I’m archiving video clips of him to use in workshops.” This
puts Trump in the same category as a number of infamous dictators like Muammar
Gaddafi, Napoleon Bonaparte, and Saddam Hussein. And although there are
narcissists out there who entertain us, innovate, or create great art, when a
narcissist is given immense power over people’s lives, they can behave much
differently. As the 2016 presidential election grows nearer we must ask
ourselves, if elected president would Donald Trump act on the behalf of the
will of the people, or would he behave more like a dictator—silencing any
dissenting voices, perpetually refusing to compromise, and being oppressive to
certain groups? To answer that, we should ask a little bit more about what
makes a narcissist tick, and how they tend to behave when given free rein.
What is it exactly that makes someone a certifiable
narcissist and not simply a person who has a healthy amount of confidence and a
burning desire to achieve great goals? According to the Mayo Clinic,
narcissistic personality disorder is “a mental disorder in which people have an
inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack
of empathy for others.”
Trump’s shortage of empathy can be seen clearly by his
stances on topics like immigration. Instead of recognizing that the data shows
that most Mexican immigrants are not violent, but instead people simply looking
for a place where actual opportunity exists, with a broad brush he claims that
they are “criminals, drug dealers, rapists, etc.” In a similar vein, Trump has
vowed to ban all Muslims from entering the country should he be elected. It
appears that his lack of empathy has distorted his mind’s ability to grasp the
fact that the refugees he speaks of are actually seeking safety from the same
murderous maniacs that he wants to keep out. Perhaps if Trump had relatives in
countries like Syria and Iraq, he might understand the constant fear that most
live under, and in turn become more willing to welcome them with open arms
rather than leaving them to be slaughtered.
But a lack of empathy is just one part of narcissistic
personality disorder. Just beneath the surface layer of overwhelming arrogance
lies a delicate self-esteem that is easily injured by any form of criticism. We
have all seen Trump unjustifiably lash out at a number of people with harsh and
often extremely odd personal attacks. When he thought he had been treated
unfairly by Fox News host and Republican debate moderator Megyn Kelly, he
responded by calling her a “bimbo” and later saying that she had “blood coming
out of her eyes, blood coming out of her wherever.” In response to the strange,
misogynistic comments Kelly said that she “may have overestimated his anger
management skills.” If the news host would have pegged him as a bona fide
narcissist from the beginning she might have expected such shamelessly flagrant
behavior.
To be fair, it is certainly true that not all
narcissists are terrible people. Some of our most beloved celebrities and
musicians have been suspected narcissists, including Elvis Presley, Marlon
Brando, Kanye West, and even Alec Baldwin. Not only are these decent people,
some have also done a lot of good through philanthropic work. Surely Donald
Trump has more in common with these individuals than he does with a psychopath
like Saddam Hussein.
There is no doubt that this has been true of the past,
yet there is one critical difference between those people and Trump or Saddam.
Only the latter two were in or are pursuing positions as heads of state—a role
that grants enormous power over world affairs and people’s lives. While a
narcissistic personality might be one of the traits that allowed Trump to be
such a successful businessman and reality TV star, it is also the trait that
makes him potentially dangerous as a political leader.
What happens when another world leader who is a loose
cannon doesn’t give Trump the admiration that he feels he deserves? We can be
sure that notoriously anti-American dictators like Kim Jong-un of North Korea
or Iran’s Supreme Leader Khamenei aren’t going to give him any respect, let
alone praise. How would a President Trump react when he feels he is being put
down or undermined? Will we see the start of World War III because the leader
of the most important nation in the world doesn’t feel that others are kissing
his ass as much as they should be? Narcissistic personality disorder is known
to have strong negative effects on relationships, and when it comes to being an
effective and responsible world leader, diplomacy is everything.
If it is not clear how the promise of great power can
change an essentially harmless narcissist into someone oppressive, let’s see
how Donald Trump’s political views have changed thus far. Prior to this
presidential race, most of us knew Donald Trump as a charismatic, cheeky,
highly entertaining figure that seemed like anything but a bigot. Mayor Bill de
Blasio of New York told CNN that the Trump he knew, and the Trump New York
knew, was nothing like the intolerant xenophobe he appears to be today. It is a
well-known fact that in the past Trump was a registered democrat who was in
favor of liberal causes like abortion rights and pals with the Clintons. But
since the promise of power has consumed him, he has become the poster boy for
ultra-right wing intolerance. This change in personality and core values
perfectly illustrates how the promise of power can transform narcissists. And
as the race for the Republican nominee progresses, it has become increasingly
obvious that Trump’s yearning to rule greatly exceeds his desire to “Make
America Great Again,” as his slogan says.
The position of President of the United States is one
that requires great empathy, a certain amount of humility, the ability to
preserve relationships, and a willingness to establish new ones. These are all
qualities that the narcissist lacks, and with their absence comes danger. Do we
really want to put all Americans, and even the entire world, at great risk by
giving a narcissist the nuclear code? Donald Trump is very much like Gollum
from Lord of the Rings, and the presidency is his “one ring to rule them all.”
In this case we do not have the option of destroying the ring. The best we can
strive for is keeping it out of the possession of those who cannot resist
abusing its power.”
SAISI
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